For high-conflict co-parenting
Paste the message from your co-parent. CalmReply gives you three short, factual replies, a plain summary of what they are asking for, pattern tags for hostile wording, and a timestamped PDF log of every exchange you keep.
Or EUR 79/yr. First 5 replies free, no card needed to try them.
What you get
Each message you paste produces the same four outputs. Nothing is sent for you. You choose what to copy into your own app.
Short replies in calm, factual language. One confirms the logistics, one holds a boundary, one moves the conversation back to the child. Each reply stays under 60 words.
One or two plain sentences on what the message asks for, such as a change to the schedule, money, or a pickup time. You read the summary before you reply.
Labels for wording in the message, such as threats, blame, absolute language, or shifting the agreed date. Tags describe the words only. They do not diagnose anyone.
Every message you paste and every reply you choose is recorded with its date and time, and exported as a PDF. Keep it in your own files for lawyers, mediators or your own records.
I hear that the handover was late. Pickup is 17:00 on Friday, as written in our plan. I will be on time.
I will not discuss this by text. If there is a concern about a handover, please send it in writing and I will reply within 48 hours.
The priority is a settled routine for the children. Can we confirm Friday's pickup time?
How it works
Copy the text from SMS, WhatsApp, email or any other app and paste it in. Nothing is linked to your co-parent's account, so they never see that you used CalmReply.
Choose one of the three replies, change any word, and send it from your own app. CalmReply records the reply you chose and the time you chose it.
At any point, export every logged exchange as one timestamped PDF with the date, time and entry number on each line. Keep a copy somewhere you control.
Who it's for
You still have to reply to the other parent, every day, in writing. Every message can be read later by a lawyer, a mediator or a judge. CalmReply keeps your replies short, neutral and dated.
You need to confirm handovers, schedules and expenses without starting a new argument.
You want a reply that does not match their tone, and a record of what was said and when.
You want an organised, dated list of messages to bring with you. CalmReply does not write your statement or give legal advice.
Pricing
Start with 5 free replies. Upgrade when you need more. Cancel from your account page at any time.
5 replies, no card
Unlimited replies
About EUR 6.58 a month
Questions
No. CalmReply has no link to your co-parent's phone, email or accounts. You paste their message yourself, and you send your reply yourself from your own app.
The log is a dated record of the messages you pasted and the replies you chose. Whether a court or mediator accepts it is their decision. Check the rules for your jurisdiction, and ask a solicitor or family law adviser how to present it.
No. The tags point to wording, such as blame or absolute language. They do not diagnose anyone or assess risk. If you are in danger, contact your local emergency number or a domestic abuse helpline.
No. CalmReply is writing and record-keeping software. It does not give legal, medical or mental health advice. No person reviews your messages before you see the output.
Your pasted messages and logs are stored for your account only. You can export the full log at any time and delete any entry or the whole account from your account page.
The free replies stay in your log. To keep replying, choose the monthly or yearly plan. Nothing is charged until you choose one.
Paste it, pick a reply, keep the record. Start with 5 free replies, then EUR 9.99/mo or EUR 79/yr.